How to turn your feelings off?

Well! People come in our life and they leave. It's quite normal. But sometimes, someone's absence eats you up to such an extent that you become unable to find a way out and you become miserable. Isn't this true? 

We all must have either experienced it or lived with the fear of experiencing it once in our lifetime. Talking about the one who walked away takes a lot of courage and not just courage for that matter but a hidden fear because we all are jumbled pair of regretful emotions or perhaps our lips never want to talk about someone who never knew how to love.

No one's ever gonna love you the way you love yourself. 

It goes without saying that you'll never forget the one you once loved. 

It is too difficult to watch ourselves fight with all the negativity around, void in our heart and the gut wrenching heartbreak. 

People come and go. 

We need to remind ourselves that whatever happens, happens for the good. When someone walks away, it breaks your heart. But to what extent can you go on breaking your own heart everyday? 

But no matter what happens, you have to take tiny steps.  

1. Block him/her

Understand that you both have different journeys now. You don't belong together.

It takes just a minute for that stupid text to bring throes of happiness to your soul but it undo all the progress you've made so far to forget him/ her. 

2. Stop calling him/her

For the sake for your 2 minute happiness. It might make you happy but you'll end up losing your self respect.

People are quite normal with loving their ex. But dear, you've known this human from so long and you know it didn't give you the best outcome. 

Why, then? 

Why would you go back running to the same person who broke your heart and never looked back.

 

3. Forgive yourself

Remember this, sometimes someone's absence makes you a better person. 

Regardless of what you've done, forgive yourself. 

No matter what mistake you made, forgive and forget.

If you don't, you'll go on breaking your own heart, everyday. What will it bring to you? Absolutely nothing! 

You can't go back in the past but it will surely ruin your present. So smile a little and forgive a little as well. 

4. Move ahead in life. 

No matter how much mistakes you've made in the past, move ahead. The best thing to do is to just let it be. After all, mistakes don't define you. Life does not revolve around relationships, only. Focus on yourself and take a step ahead. 

Make yourself a better person. 

Things will get okay when you'll try a little to make it work. 

Your are cut out for much bigger things in life.

5. Love yourself!

Do not let him/her take you for granted. Please, you deserve the best. Do not settle for anything less than what you deserve. 

Make yourself happy!

  

Appreciate everything that comes to you. You deserve the best in everything. You are a rare diamond to find.

 

So love yourself, first.

 

6. Enjoy every moment of your life. Life must be throwing a bunch of lemons your way but learn to pick up those lemons and enjoy the lemonade. 

See the good in everything and the good things will eventually fall into place. 

Keep reminding yourself that you live only once! Life is beautiful. 

7.Detach yourself from him/her. Don't ever try to be in touch with him/ her.

Stop inquiring about him/her through your friends. It has ended, now!

Stop bothering about him/ her and concentrate on healing. 

Detachments don't work like this, after-all. 

You need to heal and love yourself, first. 

8. Focus on your life goals and dreams. 

Start focusing more on your goals and dreams. Focus on your strengths and weaknesses as well and make yourself a better person. Focus on things that make you happy and you'll surely make your way into something really awesome! 

9. Stay positive! 

Someone left you doesn't simply mean that your life has ended. It's just a bad phase which too shall pass very soon. Try to look for positive in things. Don't let negativity be around you. No matter what happens, stay positive and things will happen positive. Spread positive vibes. 

  

Lastly, a lifetime advice to y'all. Please do not fall for bad things. Because as it is said maybe something very great, amazing is waiting for us but then we choose to go for something that isn't right for us. Please don't let that happen. 

Its Just a beginning. Life is not as rosy as it looks. We all are strong. We all have got the potential to deal with it. We just need to realize our strength. 

Heal yourself. 

Love yourself! 

Make yourself proud!